Blog Tour: Lilli de Jong by Janet Benton: A Book Review

Lilli de Jong by Janet Benton

Publication Date: May 16, 2017
Nan A. Talese
Hardcover & eBook; 352 Pages
Genre: Fiction/Historical/Literary


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Source: This book was given to me by Historical Fiction Virtual Book Tours in exchange for an honest review.
Synopsis: A young woman finds the most powerful love of her life when she gives birth at an institution for unwed mothers in 1883 Philadelphia. She is told she must give up her daughter to avoid lifelong poverty and shame. But she chooses to keep her.

     Pregnant, left behind by her lover, and banished from her Quaker home and teaching position, Lilli de Jong enters a home for wronged women to deliver her child. She is stunned at how much her infant needs her and at how quickly their bond overtakes her heart. Mothers in her position face disabling prejudice, which is why most give up their newborns. But Lilli can’t accept such an outcome. Instead, she braves moral condemnation and financial ruin in a quest to keep herself and her baby alive.

     Confiding their story to her diary as it unfolds, Lilli takes readers from an impoverished charity to a wealthy family’s home to the streets of a burgeoning American city. Drawing on rich history, Lilli de Jong is both an intimate portrait of loves lost and found and a testament to the work of mothers. “So little is permissible for a woman,” writes Lilli, “yet on her back every human climbs to adulthood.

    My Review: Banished from the quaker society, Lilli flees into the arms of her lover. One day, her lover abandons her and Lilli is pregnant. With no one to turn to, Lilli is forced to give birth at an institution for unwed mothers. Unwilling to give up her child, Lilli is willing to do whatever it takes to keep her. However, hardship takes over when Lilli is forced to endure the shame of being an unwed single mother. The story focuses on Lilli’s trials as well as the love she bores for her daughter.

   Lilli is truly an admirable character. I truly wept at every horrible thing that happened to her. Lilli is a brave and determined character to go such unbearable lengths in order to keep her daughter. Through these events, you can see how her love shines for her baby. Therefore, Lilli is very resilient and is one of the strongest characters that I have ever come across. Readers will be able to empathize with Lilli and root for her to find her own happiness.

   Overall, this book is about love, motherhood, and sacrifice. All of the characters were well-developed. I thought the gritty setting of the dirty streets and poverty portrayed a realistic setting of the hardships that Lilli endured. This was a very emotional read. There were a few times that I put the book down and watched tv instead because there were some graphic scenes that made me uncomfortable. I even had to watch a feel-good movie because some of the obstacles she endured became too much for me to read in one sitting. Despite these reasons for putting this book down a few times, Lilli de Jong is an important book that needs to be read. This novel is a tribute for single mothers and is truly a jewel. This book will appeal to any parent, grandparent, or anyone who just loves a story of human endurance and the power of love.

Rating: 5 out of 5 stars



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Praise for Lilli de Jong

     “Lilli de Jong, discharged from her teaching job and banished from Quaker meetings because of her father’s selfish choice, finds comfort in the affections of her father’s apprentice, Johan. The night before he leaves to embark on a new life, she succumbs to his embrace with his promise that he will send for her. Soon thereafter, a pregnant Lilli finds herself shunned and alone, her only option a Philadelphia charity for wronged women. Knowing that she must relinquish her newborn, she is unprepared for the love that she feels for her daughter. Lilli quickly decides to fight to keep her, but in 1883 that means a life of hardship and deprivation. Telling Lilli’s story in diary form, debut author Benton has written a captivating, page-turning, and well-researched novel about the power of a mother’s love and the stark reality of the choices she must make. VERDICT A great choice for book clubs and readers of Geraldine Brooks.” – Library Journal, Starred Review

     “A powerful, authentic voice for a generation of women whose struggles were erased from history—a heart-smashing debut that completely satisfies.” —Jamie Ford, New York Times bestselling author of Hotel on the Corner of Bitter and Sweet

     “Beautifully written, emotionally resonant, and psychologically astute, Lilli de Jong is the story of an unwed mother in late 19th-century Philadelphia who, facing peril at every turn, will do almost anything to keep her daughter alive. Benton turns a laser eye to her subject, exposing the sanctimony, hypocrisies, and pervasive sexism that kept women confined and unequal in the Victorian era—and that still bedevil many women today. A gripping read.” —Christina Baker Kline, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Orphan Train and A Piece of the World

“A stunning ode to motherhood. Lilli de Jong reminds us that there is no formula to being a good mother. Love is the essential ingredient, and only it gives everlasting life to our legacies. A debut of robust heart that will stay with me for a very long time.” —Sarah McCoy, author of The Mapmaker’s Children

“Janet Benton’s remarkable novel Lilli de Jong is historical fiction that transcends the genre and recalls a past world so thoroughly that it breathes upon the page. From the first sentence, Lilli’s sensitive, observant, determined voice casts an irresistible spell. Benton combines rich, carefully researched detail with an imaginative boldness that is a joy to behold—though reader, be warned: Lilli’s story may break your heart.” —Valerie Martin, author of The Ghost of the Mary Celeste

     “[A] gorgeously written debut . . . Lilli’s fight to craft her own life and nurture her bond with her baby is both devastatingly relevant and achingly beautiful. A stunning read about the fierceness of love triumphing over a rigid society.” —Caroline Leavitt, author of Is This Tomorrow

     “The trials Lilli undertakes to keep her baby are heart-rending, and it’s a testament to Benton’s skill as a writer that the reader cannot help but bear witness. In a style reminiscent of Geraldine Brooks, she seamlessly weaves accurate historical detail as well as disturbing societal norms into the protagonist’s struggles . . . An absorbing debut from a writer to watch.” —Kirkus Reviews

     “A heartrending debut . . . Benton’s exacting research fuels Lilli’s passionate, authentic voice that is ‘as strong as a hand on a drum . . . that pounds its urgent messages across a distance’ . . . Lilli’s inspiring power and touching determination are timeless.” —Publishers Weekly

     “A harrowing look at the strictures of nineteenth-century American society. . . . [Lilli] is a full-fledged heroine, persevering despite seemingly insurmountable odds. . . her voice is distinctive, her fierceness driven by a mother’s love.” —Booklist

     “I loved this novel. Lilli de Jong is deeply moving and richly imagined, both tragic and joyous. Janet Benton has an exceptional ability to bring history to life . . . It’s not only a compelling, beautifully crafted historical novel, however: it’s also important . . . Lilli’s life-and-death struggle is shockingly common to women even today.” —Sandra Gulland, author of the internationally bestselling Josephine B. Trilogy

     “Writing with a historical eye akin to Geraldine Brooks and incisive prose matching that of Anthony Doerr, debut novelist Janet Benton magically weaves a gripping narrative of hardship, redemption, and hope while illuminating a portrait of little-known history. The result is an unforgettable and important reflection on the maternal and, ultimately, the human bond. Stunning!” —Pam Jenoff, author of The Kommandant’s Girl

     “A confident debut . . . Sentence by carefully-crafted sentence, Benton ensnares the reader.” —The Millions


About the Author

     Janet Benton’s work has appeared in The New York Times, The Philadelphia Inquirer, Glimmer Train, and many other publications. She has co-written and edited historical documentaries for television. She holds a B.A. in religious studies from Oberlin College and an M.F.A. in creative writing from the University of Massachusetts, Amherst, and for decades she has taught writing and helped individuals and organizations craft their stories. She lives in Philadelphia with her husband and daughter. Lilli de Jong is her first novel.

     Visit Janet Benton's website for more information and updates. You can also connect with her on Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, and Goodreads.


Blog Tour Schedule

Monday, July 10 
Review at Oh, for the Hook of a Book! 

Tuesday, July 11 
Interview at Oh, for the Hook of a Book! 

Wednesday, July 12 
Review at Luxury Reading 

Thursday, July 13 
Review at Caryn, the Book Whisperer 

Friday, July 14 
Spotlight at Passages to the Past 

Monday, July 17 
Review at Trisha Jenn Reads 

Tuesday, July 18 
Review at 100 Pages a Day 

Wednesday, July 19 
Review at Creating Herstory 
Review at Svetlana's Reads and Views 

Friday, July 21 
Review at So Many Books, So Little Time 

Monday, July 24 
Review at History From a Woman's Perspective 

Tuesday, July 25 
Review at SJ2B House of Books 

Wednesday, July 26 
Review at A Bookish Affair 

Thursday, July 27 
Guest Post at A Bookish Affair 

Friday, July 28 
Review at Just One More Chapter

Giveaway

     During the Blog Tour we will be giving away TWO Notebooks featuring quotes from Lilli de Jong! Notebooks are spiral-bound (4×6 inches) with 50 blank pages. To enter, please enter via the Gleam form below.

Giveaway Rules:

– Giveaway ends at 11:59pm EST on July 28th. You must be 18 or older to enter.
– Giveaway is open to residents in the US only.
– Only one entry per household.
– All giveaway entrants agree to be honest and not cheat the systems; any suspect of fraud is decided upon by blog/site owner and the sponsor, and entrants may be disqualified at our discretion.
– Winner has 48 hours to claim prize or new winner is chosen. 

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Comments

  1. Thank you for your great review, Lauralee! We appreciate you hosting Janet's Blog Tour!

    Amy
    HF Virtual Book Tours

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